(Women with low self esteem are very easy to reverse)

Learn to read "types": Women, like apples, cars, and group therapy, come in "types". "Players" learn to read these types and know the ones to target. If you want to be successful in the getting laid game, you've got to learn to pick out these types. The most important type you're looking for is a woman with low self-esteem. Strangely enough, these tend to be the most beautiful women!

You're also looking for a woman that has a good association with her own body. You’ll know this by the way she dresses – usually tight, high shoes, and brightly colored clothing. If she's self-conscious she'll never feel comfortable enough with you in one night to sleep with you.

Learn to play to the woman's low self-esteem: A few well-placed compliments go a long way. Too many, and you'll be viewed as a player and the defense will go up instantly. As well, you've got to learn to speak in the woman's personal language. Comment, but don't compliment, her on her "style" and give her something to shoot for - if she plays your game. I call it backhanded compliments.... For example, you can say something like, "You really come off as nice, but I can see that you've got an 'evil' side to you." Give her little challenges that she can address to keep the game going.

Learn to build connection and trust: Connection occurs when she starts thinking, "Gee, I feel like I've known this guy for years!" You can build that by "mirroring" her activities, speaking in her language, and echoing her own belief system.

The point of this is to get her to let her guard down, and start being open to sex. A little alcohol will help (use it wisely), If she gets too drunk, you're going to be out of the game.

Keep her focus using your eyes: This is actually what I call a light form of hypnosis! By keeping her eyes focused directly in your eyes, and yours in hers, you're actually narrowing her focus. This helps to deepen the connection she feels, and therefore the trust and security.

Set the hook, then pull away: She has to be left "wanting more". You do this, by getting her going and reversing and reading her "buying signals". When she is leaning in toward you, showing you her palms and wrists, playing with her hair, touching herself, etc., etc. she's giving you buying signals. But remember the sale is only for a short time so you need to buy.

This is usually the time when a lot of men say, "Well it was nice meeting you", and turn and walk away! You're going to snap her back to reality - where she doesn't want to be. It will be her job to recreate those great feelings AGAIN. So, she'll chase after you and say, "Oh, wait ..." This is a good time to tell her that you're getting tired of the bar and are interested in going somewhere else, (like HER place!)

Let her think is was HER idea: If she thinks that sleeping together is YOUR idea, she's going to be hesitant. If she "thinks it up" (with your help of course), she's going to be much more receptive!


Does all this mean that you won't be able to sleep with a woman when you first meet her if she doesn't have low self-esteem? No, not necessarily. It depends on the connection you establish. (Learn and Live the Game)